the word lighthearted chose me for 2016; but how does one quantify the weight of a heart? the way gravity acts on the literal mass of an object, or the significance we impart to it? i adore my man’s penchant for seeing miracles where others might perceive trauma. there is choice in lightheartedness; like editing we choose what remains, what we omit. when things get heavy, we change their weight by helping one another with the carrying. this playful photo of quinn making his latest stop-motion arctic movie hints at the pulleys and rigging that can lighten a load.
i’ve decided to allow myself 100 words for these weekly photo challenge posts, kind of a fun game; and then i decided that quotes (and this disclaimer) don’t count against that limit. because i get to make the rules on this blog, ok?
participating in the weekly photo challenge from the daily post: weight(less) is today’s theme
i have been delinquent on posting ~a month of unschool~ for so many months now, that it is time for an update on a whole year! i gave up on the idea of back-dating the posts and decided to do one giant long post of the whole year in the life of one lifelong learner. which also feels like a more fitting title for where we are in life at the moment. i am not threatening to make these posts become an annual thing, i’d rather go back to monthly, now that we’re caught up… so go run to the bathroom and fetch yourself your beverage of choice before you read on, this one is going to take you a few minutes! and as always, thanks for reading. xoxo
june 24- july 23, 2014
~ ols summer program ~ pinata making ~ new owner of a library card ~ game making ~ logic game playing ~ book sewing ~
~big creek park hiking ~ water quality testing ~
~ snake witnessing ~
~ oregon country fair ~ pokemon toting ~ totem ogling ~ beauty absorbing ~ fun having ~
~ snail experiment to test intertidal snails’ tendency to move towards red and away from blue, hence towards “shallow” based on the attenuation of light at depth ~
~ tidepooling ~
~ scientific method! a good experiment is repeatable! repeating the snail experiment with a different batch of intertidal snails, different species from a different beach, but same experimental design ~
~ experimenting with wind energy and how blade configuration affects windmill efficiency ~
~ blueberry picking ~ livestock visiting ~
~ earth dough volcano making ~
~ more snails, this time freshwater snails whose parasites are pretty fun to watch under a microscope ~
~ marine science center fun ~
~ returning the snails to their river home ~
~ reading ~ playing ~ eating ~ yoga-ing ~
july 24-august 23, 2014
~ pancake-ing ~
~ marine discovery touring ~
~ developing a farmer’s market booth (a biweekly tradition observed at ols for practice with currency and entrpreneurship) around trading cards ~
~ camping with family. i love the magical glowing dust motes suggestive of fireflies, and the purposeful walk of the kids ~
~ comic reading, pasta slurping, river romping, adventure plotting ~
~ joy bubbling up at the river’s edge ~
~ tent dwelling, water meditating, karate dancing, tire swinging ~
~ big creek park adventuring ~
~ library summer program fun, including dragon puppet theatre’s 2014 feature “it’s electric!” ~
~ selling his very own homemade pokemon cards at farmer’s market, using magnatiles to display his wares and organize his cash~
~ noodling, sparkling, sprinkling, camping, and generally having fun at squirrel fest ~
~ tie dying ~ peaceful kids power teaming ~
~ eating, tracking down carmen sandiego, breaking into dance moves ~
~ perhaps foreshadowing his future karate self, or maybe air drumming ~
august 24- september 23, 2014
~first day of schooling ~
~ setting up a rock museum ~
~ best friending ~
~ learning through games ~
~ learning through engineering ~
~ learning through time for reflection ~
~ ceramics magic ~
~ biking ~
~ slicing up a fresh batch of pokemon cards to sell ~ reading aloud to younger students ~ figure drawing ~ math gaming ~
~ 3 dimensional geometry using a variety of media ~
september 24 – october 23, 2014
~ a study of optics prompted by a visit to ols by a local eye doctor ~
~ pancaking ~
~ airporting ~ flying ~ cousin reuniting!~
~ happy times in new york ~
~ helping grampy with the tractor ~
~ noodle field hockey at the nature center ~
~ observing lots of nature center beauty and life ~
~ these photos were taken by quinn, as material he planned to use in creating pokemon stadium cards ~
~ shelter building ~
~ demolitioning grampy’s broken wagon ~
~ lounging with grampy ~ mountain coastering with rich ~ perler beading with cousins ~ celebrating with grammy ~
~ apple picking wagon riding ~
~ play time with friends and cousins ~
~ writing ~ practicing with the metric system ~ more work on the eye and optics ~
~ hiking and exploring cape perpetua ~
~ experimenting with color mixing ~ contributing to group art piece gratitude poster made from finger prints ~
~ reading the raven and other books about northwest native american culture ~ creating art in preparation for dia de los muertos ~ visiting a local tribal cultural center ~
~ learning firsthand what it means to be a seal or a sea lion, during a pinniped lesson ~
october 24- november 23, 2014
~ taking lots of walks down our gravel road, often wielding a staff like donatello ~
~ baking pan (bread) for dia de los muertos ~ learning all about the day of the dead traditions and participating in a celebration of it ~
~ writing stories ~ drawing zombies ~
~ making maps of haunted mansions ~ coming up with the idea for his halloween costume from a pokemon card ~
~ making a group totem pole, including his own totem animal, the owl ~
~ delving into dungeons and dragons (seriously academic stuff, folks. lots of great math, storytelling, mapping, creativity!) ~
~ listening to his dad play banjo and guitar at ols ~
~ celebrating birthdays ~
~ studying animal classification ~ solidifying concepts about the 5 groups of vertebrates (mammals, birds, reptiles, amphibians and fish) and also being introduced to kingdom-phylum-class-order-family-genus-species ~ playing a scattergories-esque game where you have to name a mammal, bird, reptile, amphibian, and fish all starting with the letter chosen (this got all the kids opening up reference books, and i quickly abandoned any time-limits in favor of letting them dive deeper to find more obscure animal names) ~
~ making gratitude trees ~ making games ~ making adventures ~
~ learning about the process of taking wool from sheep to sweater ~ more figure drawing, this time from life ~ reading my old book the little lamb ~
~ taking care of dogs and guinea pigs ~ breakfast with a guinea pig snuggled in your blanket is a great way to start the day ~
november 24 – december 23, 2014
~ making applesauce (which them became fruit leather) using simple machines (apple peeler-corer-slicer and food-mill) ~
~ making pumpkin pie ~ simple machine grinder to crush the ginger cookies for the pie crust ~
~ rolling with the simple machines theme ~ building a rope-making machine from scratch ~ making rope ~
~ sculpting storyteller dolls ~
~ coming up with new pokemon card designs to sell ~ making a set of cards and a special elven rope (very thin, exceptionally strong) using the ols rope making machine, for his dad’s birthday present ~
~ clearing limbs off the road after a storm ~ drawing by flashlight in power outage ~
~ taking care of ruby tuesday ~ listening to stories ~ reading stories ~
~ planting a new tree for the local public library ~
~ celebrating friends’ birthdays. i love his birthday song face ~
~ 3d geometry ceramics project in final form ~
~ caroling at ols, this year’s favorite song was “do you hear what i hear?” ~ decorating our tree ~ making gingerbread houses with friends ~
december 24, 2014 – january 23, 2015
~ celebrating with family ~
~ exploring the arctic ~
~ indulging mama’s photography practice by posing in front of christmas tree lights ~
~ for a while ~
~ super patiently ~
~ worked on a new report topic (started out with dragons but ended up focusing on oregon trail) ~ studied perspective through painting ~ learned how to rock a kilt thanks to an awesome homemade gift ~ visited whale bones ~
~ around this time, quinn made a few quotable statements:
“learning would be so much easier without teachers”
“when ava sat down it looked like a white lily pad!”
noted here so that once the sticky note i jotted them down on gets washed in my jeans pocket only to end up stuck in the lint trap and lost forever, they are somewhere
~ began a month-long pioneers and oregon trail unit ~ making corn husk dolls ~ keeping an oregon trail journal from perspective of a pioneer, including a budget for the supplies they would need for their journey on the oregon trail ~
~ acting out pioneer life in a wagon built from fort magic (what a great learning tool! we used it in many applications throughout the year) ~
~ presenting his research on life on the oregon trail, specializing in the life of pioneer children ~
january 24- february 23, 2015
~ pioneers continued ~
~ slates ~ rules and rulers ~ pioneer lunch (ham, biscuits, jam, cheese, pickles, dried apples, wrapped in cloth or stored in glass jars) ~ nail, ear, neck inspection ~
~ baking biscuits, shaking butter, building a salt dough map of the united states featuring the oregon trail ~
~ building an oregon trail diorama, calculating the number of times a wagon wheel turned depending on how many miles it drove ~
~ celebrated a grand finale *pioneer day* featuring washboards for washing doll clothes, candle making, soap pouring, lunch packed in baskets with no plastic baggies or tupperwares or individually wrapped snacks, and 3-legged races ~
~ research presentation on scorpions ~
~ egg drop engineering ~ spill-and-spell and handwriting practice ~
~ beginning a salmon science unit ~ provided a home for some salmon eggs in a tank on our ols science counter ~ ate snack made with graham crackers, peanut butter, chocolate rocks and blueberries, that looked suspiciously like our tank bottom ~ played return to the redd board game (so much good curriculum on salmon science is available online, the problem was not thinking up curriculum but sifting through all the great stuff already out there!) ~ group art project and puzzle making a large salmon poster from individual coloring sheets ~
~ found our way home using our noses (each stream had its own characteristic essential oil fragrance in a packet clothes-pinned to each fork in the stream; i made the stream finger-knitting while kids were giving their research presentations ~ watched eggs hatch out alevins ~
~ science counter with tank full of eggs, and finished poster ~ we also sculpted and embossed fish in art class, but i didn’t have good pictures to show ~
~ turning 8 at school ~
~ turning 8 on his actual birthday ~
february 24 – march 23, 2015
~ large floor diagram of internal salmon anatomy ~ adding the heart ~ all parts taped on and labeled ~
~ dissection of an adult salmon (provided by fish and wildlife, who had some leftover from a trap survey ~ thousands of eggs! this was a female, and we got to see a male, too ~ one egg ~ the lens removed from the eye ~ (note: a dissection is actually not quinn’s idea of a good time, and he opted to do the virtual dissection and not attend this dissection; i still wanted to record it here, to remember what i taught in science class!)
~ celebrating turning 8 one more time for good measure! dragon party at the dragon house ~ featuring reading of treasure hunt clues and science experimenting with lava lamps, amid all the cupcakes and fun ~
~ pancaking ~
~ climbing ~
~ fraternizing with eagles ~
~ unstructured time playing pokemon in costume in fort magic ~ watercolor and marker on wood veneer ~ reading great books, such as buffalo woman, to himself ~ organizing his pokemon cards in a binder, with a cover he designed and decorated ~
~ sand therapy ~
~ game making lab and library (including all the game pieces you might need for creating your own game- fake money, dice, spinners, timers, mover pieces, letter tiles, and more); students developed their idea for a game, tested it by having other students play it, and then were given a blank game board (thrifted and covered with white paper) and a sharpie to make it a real game ~
~ fry growing rapidly in science counter tank ~ returning carcasses of dissected fish to the stream ~
~ group project: stop-motion animation of the entire life cycle of a salmon ~ man in black currently operating the camera is quinn ~
~ setting up insect prey and making salmon eat them ~
~ the finished film ~
~ returning a week later with our ready-to-release fry, we observed the way the ecosystem was utilizing the salmon carcasses; all but one had been “utilized” completely, and this one remained, covered in snails ~ each student got to release individual fry, carefully netting it and setting it free in the stream, along with a “wish for a fish” for health and survival prospects ~ a fun frog was found on release day as well ~
~ some of the kids named their fish; quinn released swimmy and sammy ~
~ the free fry, swimming in the stream ~
~ his own stop motion studio at home, this time with his birthday lego set of mos eisley cantina ~
~ fully absorbed in the wings of fire series about dragons, by tui sutherland ~ pinewood derby fun ~
~ started karate!!! ~
~ what he looked like in the evening after the first few karate practices ~
march 24- april 23, 2015
~ room makeover ~
~ creating a board game for a best friend birthday present ~ decorating eggs ~
~ diving wholeheartedly into his new passion ~
~ celebrating a friend ~
~ experiencing a watershed model ~
~ exploring book covers as a material for art making ~ contributing to a group art exhibit at the local public library ~
~ pancaking is always so much fun ~
~ dabbling in photography, quinn has recently had very urgent needs to use my camera, and these two are some of his shots ~
~ drumming on a drum set ~ i see more drums in our future ~
~ karate game called “whack the students” for practicing basic blocking set ~ quinn got to go first and not knowing what to expect, the whole group ended up laughing together as he dissolved in giggles ~
~ did you see me? ~
~ brief flashback to another day, another daisy ~
~ earth day writing assignment, inspired by an out-of-print book i came across at omsi years ago, and then bought a copy of, called while a tree was growing ~ quinn’s story from the perspective of the tree he chose to write about ~
april 24- may 23, 2015
~ alternative energy experiments with solar panels and windmills ~
~ an earth-day board game ~ experimenting with wind energy, using it to perform work, such as hauling “kids” (washers) up in an “elevator” (cup) which was great fun ~
~ making their own laptops and ipads, on paper ~
~ sucked into the diary of a wimpy kid vortex ~
~ earned his red tip, and qualified to test for a yellow belt ~
~ yellow belt test success! ~
~ guinea pig research presentation ~
~ practicing coordinate plane with “find the spy” game ~ making a special egg quilt square for teacher k ~ becoming a wizard with a handmade blue-agate topped staff ~
~ visiting tall ships with class and learning about shipping trade and the life of a sailor ~ visiting tall ships with mama and learning about capstans, windlasses, tillers and lines ~
may 24 – june 23, 2015
~ horsing around ~
~ creating our own comic strips ~ singing spanish songs ~ fishing and canoeing ~ reading a ton!~
~ going on “dates” with mama to the food co-op for treats and quiet time after school and before karate and devouring calvin and hobbes ~
~ yellow belting ~
~ learning about babies ~ grating the purple cabbage of science, and using purple cabbage acid/base indicator to test our water supply ph (it’s all good, we don’t have a lot of trouble with acid rain here) ~
~ practicing archery (here only in gesture, but for real at his dad’s house) ~
~ tidepooling and adventuring with friends ~
~ learning the yellow belt curriculum ~
~ sparring ~
~ graduating! the ols kids had a last day of school outing to one of our state parks, and had a wonderful, heartfelt graduation ceremony, involving stuffed bears with graduation caps, tassels with meaningful symbolic charms attached, and diplomas, in addition to some wonderful words spoken by teacher k about her hopes for the kids as they leave ols ~
(condensed and excerpted here, so he can look back on it and remember!)
“Always do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Remember that we are one. Anything you do for another, you do for yourself. And anything you do for yourself, you do for another.
Obey all laws so long as they’re just. Check to see if a rule or law is fair. Ask questions. If you find that a law is fair, then abide by it. If it creates injustice for another person or being or a group of beings, then don’t.
Love, Love, Love, Love. Keep your heart open and your mind sharp. Remember that the best way to conquer an enemy is to become their friend.
Finally, never accept the status quo. If everyone around you says it can’t be done, then ask them to kindly step aside so that you can get it done. If you want to see more love in the world, then be the love.
Remember that each of your lives is essential to our world. Be who you are. Love who you are. Like the many instruments in a symphony, we each play a part. Play yours with all your heart!”
~ seeing the world through rainbow colored glasses ~ here he is looking at his tassel, with its golden key to the world, and musical instrument charm (his was a saxophone) ~
~ earning his first black tip on his yellow belt ~
~ first lesson with nunchaka (“chucks”) which quinn thoroughly enjoyed ~
~ and onward we go, embracing whatever comes around the next bend or over the next bridge, learning all the time! ~
on new year’s day, coyote visited rich in the form of a near miss with his new truck. the next day, i drew a card about this new year, and sure enough, there was coyote, the piece entitled makes you stronger, by pixie campbell.
coyote travels the rough terrain, establishing territories everywhere. he learns his lessons the hard way, keeping a sense of humor about him as he goes. he turns rigid thinking upside down, preferring to keep it light, while adapting in order to survive. he is a humble teacher, a blissed out fool, an accidental genius. his song carries over mountaintops to find his kind. he is persistent, enduring and prolific. there is nothing he can’t do, nowhere he won’t go. he is fearless. coyote outlasts bad weather, yipping contentedly through his long days and many journeys.
haha, universe. keeping our sense of humor, check.
though i don’t think of them as fortune telling tools, this card turned out to be a fairly decent forecast of the trickster of a year we have encountered so far. luckily the strengths of coyote seem to be finding their way to the surface. i think i can say for our family that we remain persistent, enduring and prolific. fearless is another apt description. scrappy. we are definitely outlasting bad weather, and looking ahead to contented long days and abundant journeys ahead.
the weather hasn’t been so bad, in the literal sense, though in the metaphorical sense we have had been weathering some storms. rough terrain, indeed.
we were confronted around new years by our landlord, who said she was kicking us out as of this summer so that she could “get the house back in shape”. (background info: rich has rented our house for 18 years, raised his two kids here, his grandkids know it as “grandpa’s house”, my son has now lived half his life in it, and we have no desire to go anywhere else, ever. nor do our cats. he has also done everything required of him and then some as a tenant, or else we’d have no toilet, kitchen faucet, stairs to front and back doors, clean chimney, etc.) we countered what felt like an out-of-the-blue attack with “what if we offered to buy it from you?” and we have been attempting to negotiate with her ever since.
dealing with her, and learning lots of legal and real estate vocabulary, and feeling the threat of a potential major transition for the whole gang has been less than pleasant. i prefer to focus on the way rich set my heart aglow when he told me he wanted my name next to his on the deed. and of course, visualizing a successful sale and ourselves shaping this place up, with every incentive to do so, once we own it.
then there is our living school. my current livelihood, and the centerpiece of quinn’s current educational experience, will be on sabbatical next year. as of june, i need a different livelihood to manifest, and in september, quinn will embark on a different educational plan.
but hey, there is nothing scrappy coyote can’t do.
finally, i have put a lot of energy into trying to help a friend for whom i have been extremely concerned. this has been a brand new learning curve for me, and has definitely required fearlessness, persistence, and a sense of humor. it has been a mix of every stage of the grieving process, weighing and then stepping up to my convictions of responsibility i feel we have for each other in community, and a delicate act of balancing self care, family care, and friend care.
you know, small potatoes like that. nothing that a long-overdue hour-and-forty-five-minute phone conversation with my bff couldn’t put into perspective.
for our third anniversary in december, i made rich another mix cd to add to his growing stack, and one night i hovered outside the bathroom door to hear quinn singing an old crow medicine show song in the bathtub, “rock me mama like a wagon wheel, rock me mama any way you feel, hey mama rock me, rock me mama like the wind and the rain, rock me mama like a wagon train.” (the actual lyrics are “like a southbound train” instead of “wagon train” but i love his version). how sweet that the lyrics are applicable regardless of what sense of the word mama you’re intending; loving mother mama, or loving hot mama.
without a doubt, quinn had wagon trains on his mind when he picked up that tune, as we spent january at ols studying the oregon trail and pioneer living, which was deeply captivating for him. one of these days i will get the month of unschool posts back-filled so you can see the fun we had heading out west, and then in february, focusing on salmon as we hatched them from eggs in a tank in our classroom.
in quinn’s life lately, dragons are big, thanks in large part to the wings of fire series he has so enjoyed for bedtime stories. he has created a game that kids at school have adopted and adapted, based loosely on the books, where you get to choose if you are a mud, fire, water, or air dragon (i may be forgetting some elements), and then the play consists of using your particular powers, as far as i understand, to conquer evil dragons. of course i chose water, and our ceramics teacher chose mud. quinn is also better than halfway through listening to the lemony snicket audio version of a series of unfortunate events. he picks up the comics page in the newspaper regularly now and will announce, not very long after he picks it up, “i read this whole thing,” as in, “next!” and he is often found reading whatever he finds laying around. i, in turn, have been strewing plenty of library books in his path, as my unschooling roots dictate.
yesterday, quinn realized he had been graduated from the middle reading group, and his teacher told him his reading had opened up so much that he now reads on level with the “olders” group. she said his chest really puffed out when he heard that. the kids who were still in group (which he had walked in on at the end, which was how he had realized he was no longer in it) cheered him on and celebrated his accomplishment, without taking on any sense of inferiority. oh, ols. we will miss you next year.
when he isn’t reading, he is spending large amounts of time with pokemon cards in hand, and it’s fun to see how the kids at school respect and value his poke knowledge (oh wait, that is because it’s all about reading), as several more of the kids have started their own collections recently. he enjoyed more than a few minutes of fame when he added to his collection a mega charizard ex with 300 hp, found in one of the expansion packs rich bought him for his birthday. if you understood even half of that sentence, you’re doing well.
finally, he has become interested in stop motion animation, and i got a clunky but serviceable free app called zoetrope on my laptop to help him in that endeavor. it seems he has a bit of a knack for incrementally moving pieces of a lego set around, frame by frame, in order to tell a story. his first few films are linked here, in order of production date. after the first one, all the rest have been taken using my good camera.
if you have to choose just one to watch, i highly recommend arctic adventure, in which a friendly polar bear helps the valiant arctic explorers capture a crook who steals all their equipment from the research station.
like a coyote, and like a wagon wheel, we’ll be continuing onward across some rugged terrain, and we expect we’ll be yipping contentedly along the way!